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Designing a successful parenting plan

One of the most important things that divorced New Jersey parents have to do as part of their adaptation during divorce is creating a parenting plan that works. While it might be difficult for ex-spouses to work together after a split, it is possible for them to work toward a successful parenting plan if both are willing to sacrifice.

As parents begin discussing their parenting plan, they should remember that the plan is not about convenience but about arranging their children’s schedules as they start a new normal after divorce. As the planning begins, they should consider where the children go to school and how they get there, their children’s after-school activities and other needs that might arise. If their kids are younger, they might also need to consider the location of their regular babysitter or caretaker as continuing with this person might help with their stability during a time of major changes.

Another thing parents can do during the planning stage is including older children in the discussion because they might have preferences and suggestions that can help. While parents do not have to let the children make final decisions, including older children is important because it gives them a voice during the process. Finally, parents should remember not to use the parenting plan as a revenge tool against their ex or to complain how their ex might benefit more than them. Keeping the focus on the children and the parenting plan as a tool to foster the children’s relationship with both parents, a key aspect in family law, can be the basis of a successful parenting plan.

While some parents are able to put their differences aside when it comes to their children, other couples might struggle with the tension. In both cases, a parent may benefit from guidance from a family law lawyer through each step of the process.